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The 7 Keys to Successful Conscious Dating by Jill Crosby

Spiritual Dating” or “Conscious Dating” is an enlightened way of meeting and dating. There are no rules or expectations, and it’s about being true to yourself, conscious of the other person and staying in the flow. Conscious dating is more fun tha... article
How Do I Know If They Are the ONE? by Nijole Sparkis


Question: "I met someone I feel so close to, but we are going through a lot of ups and downs. How do I know if they are the one for me or not?"

Good question! Even though I was blessed with a flash of inspiration and my husband and I both KNEW right away that we were perfect for each ot... article
Greater Authenticity & Personal Freedom by Nijole Sparkis

I have truly been moving through many deep levels and layers of healing, following article
Eco-Sexy Dating Tips by Jill Crosby

Whether single or in a relationship, we can always bring more sensuality into our lives….while keeping it green!

We recommend supporting local businesses by purchasing the items below at your nearest earth-friendly co-op or green grocer. Buy organic or GMO-free when you can. Remember, it’s all about the allure of caring for the planet... article
Manifest Your Mate by Jill Crosby

Finding the love of your life can be a daunting challenge these days, without having a little help! Most singles on a conscious path are relatively happy and content with their lives; however, they would usually prefer to be in a loving, spiritual partnership with a person that enhances their life and gives them the opportunity to grow and thrive in a deep, spiritual love, making life more even enjoyabl... article
Saying No Liberates Both Parties Involved! by Laurie Moore

When dating, it is important to keep asking ourselves, what matters most to me? Am I over-compromising to avoid hurting someone else? Am I going outside of my deeper needs zone in hopes someone will change later? Am I judging myself unfavorably for my unique needs instead of honoring these? We have may have heard advice like this many times. Practicing it, however, is an art.
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Ungrounded Energy, A Widespread Issue by Cameron Day

It used to be common knowledge in consciousness circles that a person needed to be grounded both energetically and physically.  People would talk about what foods helped them feel the most grounded, how spending time in nature helped them ground their meditative experiences and so on.  However, I have noticed a trend in the last few years where people are getting very ungrounded, an... article
World Vision by Jill Crosby

The following is a vision that I received in October, 2011. It came to me in the evening before going to sleep while lying in bed. It was if I was actually there, living it. When I came back to this realm I took copious notes in my iphone which was on my night stand. After meditating the morning of 11/11/11, I felt guided to share this vision with our members in the form of a mass email. I got sooooo many responses from that email that I have now decided to pos... article
Feng Shui Your Bedroom to Atract a Lover by Ken Lauher

Rest, Rejuvenation and Romance:

Use Feng Shui in your bedroom to attract a lover or strengthen your relationship

Are you looking to attract a lover?

Perhaps you would like to strengthen your romantic relationship with your partner. In Feng... article
The Top 10 Things to do on a GREEN DATE by Jill Crosby

Having a green lifestyle in general is very important to most of us, so why not take it a step further and make sure that your dating lifestyle is also green.

Here are 10 great, green dating ideas:

Volunteer Together! Spend time learning and talking a... article

This morning my Soul said this to me during a meditation and showing me as a symbolic image story of me as a precious gemstone lying buried just beneath the surface in the ground with a number of explorers looking to find me, that I, Janie, was a beautiful precious jewel that has been lying here buried in the ground. 

Many have passed me by, walked over me even.  I was within sight but they missed me........they... article
Communication, Communication, Communication by Paul and Layne Cutright

You know the old adage for success in real estate. Location, location, location. Well, a similar adage could apply to success in relationships. Only, it would be communication, communication, communication!

Nothing is more important than your relationships, because your relationships affect every part of your life. We think you’ll agree it is in your relationships that your deepest feelings arise. You... article
The Joy of Being in Love by Norma Dillingham and the Brotherhood/Sisterhood of Light

In my past, I was in love with love. I loved the way that I felt when I was in love, with no question in my mind as to why or what that meant. I assumed that the person I loved was the cause of all of the keen, sometimes almost painful awareness of beauty in everything that I was experiencing. That person appreciated and valued me, therefore I felt more beautiful, lovable and loving. article
Intimate Communication by Robert Frey

The deeper connection of spiritual intimacy requires a dynamic interaction as well as moments of stillness and spaciousness. This constitutes the yang and yin of intimacy, the action and the receptivity. In a natural, harmonious intimate connection, there emerges a flow of giving and receiving, activity and stillness. This mirrors the dynamic nature of the Universe and all life. article
Love is a Choice by Robert Frey

Once in awhile, if we are fortunate, a simple, yet profound concept will appear in such a way as to fully command our attention, shift our understanding of life, and gift us with a more comprehensive core belief. This was the case with a wonderful little book by Gerald Jampolsky titled, "Love Is Letting Go Of Fear". Inspired (I beli... article
WHY RELATIONSHIPS ARE NOT ALWAYS "FOREVER" by Norma Dillingham and the Brotherhood/Sisterhood of Light

Being in love does not always work out the way we hope that it will. This can lead us to feelings of heart-wrenching loss, disappointment, and confusion. We do our best to glean what we can from the experience as life continues to move us along to the next opportunity to discover yet another bit of self-realization. This is the nature of our existence. article
5 Ways to Attract Your Perfect Partner by Susie and Otto Collins

Why are some people successful at attracting a perfect partner and a great relationship and others are not?

The answer may surprise you...

A woman we'll call "Joyce" thought she was a great "catch" and a "perfect partner" but she wondered why her relationships always seemed to fail.

Here's what she wrote to us--
"I dated men of various ... article
Come Close, But Stay Away by Helene Rothschild

Do you desire a relationship but never seem to meet the right person? Are you finding that even when you do connect with someone, the relationship does not last long? It turns out to be another disappointment, another feeling of rejection, or end of a fantasy. 

If you can relate to these feelings, know that you are not alone. As a Marriage, Family, and Child Therapist for 26 ye... article
Relationships 101 by Patricia J. Crane, Ph.D.

"The journey of the heart is truly the only journey there is." 

Relationships seem to be one of the hottest topics these days. Everyone wants one, but hardly anyone seems happy once they're in one! Most of the time when we are talking about relationships, we mean those intimate ones with a significant other. However, relationships abound in our lives, with a range from casual to intimate. In truth, all relationships provide us with opportunities to... article
Love Is Not Enough by Helene Rothschild, MS, MA

Do you feel disappointed and like a failure because you love your partner but you still have many painful conflicts? 

If you answered yes to the above question, know that you are not alone in your frustrations. Somehow, most of us have mistakenly been led to believe that love is enough to sustain an intimate relationship. The truth is that it takes much more than love to be in ha... article
"A Bigger Box..." by Susie and Otto Collins

For many of us, the holiday gift buying season is in full swing.One of the all-time biggest gift wrapping questions we typically ask is "Do I have a box big enough to fit the item that I need to wrap?"

The same thing often applies when it comes to creating better relationships and here's what we mean...

What we have found is that sometimes we need to create a bigger "box" --to open our hearts... article
Creating Agreements That Work by Layne and Paul Cutright

People yearn for relationships they can trust. They want to be able to depend on people. They want relationships characterized by ease, clarity and harmonious cooperation. But, is there any adult who hasn't felt let down or betrayed by someone who didn’t live up to his or her agreements?

What Is an Agre... article
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